कितने अजनबी हो गए है हम
दूर से भी झलक नही देखते
कभी पास थे इतने एक दुसरे मैं झलक थे ढूँढ़ते
तुझे तो रुक्सत कर दिया
तेरी यादों को रुक्सत करू कैसे
मेरे हर लम्हे मैं है तू ख़ुद से जुदा करू कैसे

letter to editor

http://www.tribuneindia.com/2006/20060213/mailbag.htm

Monday, February 13, 2006, Chandigarh, India


Practical knowledge
At present we are emphasizing bookish knowledge a lot. But the need is for practical knowledge. A person who has only theoretical knowledge cannot attain success. Our government must do something about this because bookish knowledge is little knowledge and it is rightly said that little knowledge is a dangerous thing. A person having work experience can become more successful than a mere degree holder.
Practical knowledge will make us independent. It also helps us to know all sides of a chosen career. Students will become ready for their work mentally and physically. Then they must devote their full interest and time in their work. For this purpose it’s very much necessary that education should be free from the hands of the politicians. Government must think seriously about practical education for students rather then thinking about the privatization of education. Only proper practical knowledge along with book knowledge can prepare us for a better future life.
Shelly Sood, Ludhiana

baache ya bade

dhund se dhake paate,

thand se thetturte paate,

marne ke dua karte hain.

bhuk se vilakte baache,

roti dekh khane ke aas karte hain.

aankh main masumiyat,

per duniya ke baat karte hai.

kitna bada umaar se bana diya,

hakikat ne aaj inko,

aapno ke hote hue bhi,

begano ka hat thamte hai.

saath ke aass

dur leharon se ,
samander nahi hota.
kise ke kahane se ,
koi apna nahi hots.
pyar ke baatien sab karte hai,
kahne se kabhi pyar nahi hota.
log aate hain chale jate hain,
kahane se kabhi haasil,
koi mukaam nahi hota.
mujh se jayada kon janta hai,
manzilo se fisalna kya hota hai.
gir kar khud uthana kya hota hai,
fir bhi unhi rasto pe chalta hai dil.
use shayd fisalne ke aadat hai,
dekh kar duniya ke raang,
har baar dur hona chahta hai .
fir bhi satraangi chakachondh nahi bhulti,
aakele hone per bhi ,
tere saath ke aas nahi tuteti..

raaste juda juda

aaj bhi ajnabi hain hum unse,


roz mulakaat hone k baavjood.


kisse to bahut sune the tanhai ke,


khud per beeti to kya kahu.


ek nazar bhar dekh lete hain bus.


kasie kahu ke ek umar bitane ke he aarzoo.


lab pe jo baat nahi aati mere,


aanken na keh de is se darti hun.


hussan walo pe to duniya marti hai,


aap pe fida hun yeh kasie keh do.


malum nahi jab tere dil ke kashmkash ka raaz,


mujhe aapna bana le yeh kasie keh do.


ab tak jo humkadam mile naazare bhar dekhte he rahe.


daar lagta hai ab kise ke dekhane se,


kasie keh du k mujhe aapne pahlu main sameet le.


teri aarzoo se bakhabar hu abhi,


fir na jane kyun lagat hain ter,

tere dil main bhi wahin kashish hai ,

jo mere dil main hai dabi.

feb.25

kuch cheege yu he bikhar jati hai
tanhai main teri yaad aati hai
musam ke baat kare ya dil ke,
har taraf teri he surat dekhi deti hai.
bhoolna kitna aasan tha tere liye,
per hum bhula kar tumhe kaise jiye,
yeh janta hai mera khuda ya main khud,
tere vaaham main humne kitne aasuno ke jaam piye.
haath to bahut uthe thamne ko ab bhi magar,
tere jaise pyar ke garmahat na jane kyun na lage.

what is love

"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love." - Sophocles

"Attention is the most basic form of love; through it we bless and are blessed." - John Tarrant

"We love because it's the only true adventure." - Nikki Giovanni

"Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away." - Dorothy Parker

"Love is friendship set on fire." - unknown

"Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing." - Goethe

"To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia." - H.L. Mencken

"Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it...It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more." - Erica Jong

"Sometimes love is stronger than a man's convictions." - Isaac Bashevis Singer

"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness." - Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it." - Robert Mitchum

"Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside." - Margaret Walker

"Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature." - Howard Thurman

"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end." - Anonymous

"Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other." - Rainer Maria Rilke

"Where love is, no room is too small." - Talmud

"Loves makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place." - Zora Neale Hurston

"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." - Mark Twain

"Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day." - Nicholas Sparks

"To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven." - Karen Sunde

"A love song is just a caress set to music." - Sigmund Romberg

"Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit." - Peter Ustinov

"Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever." - unknown

"Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence." - Erich Fromm

"In the final analysis, love is the only reflection of man's worth." - Bill Wundram, Iowa Quad Cities Times

"Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile." - Elizabeth Browning

"Oh, life is a glorious cycle of song, A medley of extemporanea; And love is a thing that can never go wrong; And I am Marie of Roumania." - Dorothy Parker

"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down." - Woody Allen,

ehassas

kuch aisa chaha tha,
haseen yadon ka saya tha,
aapna hokar bhi na jane kyun wo paraya tha?
chut jayenge saath is baat ka hai ehsaas,
fir bhi na jane kyun hai mere liye wo har pal khass ,
jo bitaya maine tere saath.
humkadam to bahut mile lakin,
teri tarhan mujhe samjh payega kon,
is baat main itfaq na hoga tujh sa koi dost khass na hoga.

with love dedicate to JATIN Purba

galib's wonderful work

1. hazaaroN KHwahishaiN 'eisee ke har KHwahish pe dam nikle
bohot nikle mere armaaN lekin fir bhee kam nikle
2. Dare kyooN mera qaatil kya rahega uskee gardan par
wo KHooN, jo chashm-e-tar se 'umr bhar yooN dam_ba_dam nikle
[ KHooN = blood, chashm = eye, tar = wet, dam_ba_dam = continously ]
3. nikalna KHuld se aadam ka sunte aayaiN haiN lekin
bohot be_aabru hokar tere kooche se ham nikle
[ KHuld = heaven, be_aabaru = disgrace, koocha = street ]
4. bharam khul jaaye zaalim tere qaamat ki daraazee ka
agar is turra-e-pur_pech-o-KHam ka pech-o-KHam nikle
[ daraazee = length/delay, qaamat = stature, turra = an ornamental
tassel worn in the turban, pech-o-KHam = curls in the
hair/complexity ]
5. magar likhwaaye koee usko KHat, to hamse likhawaaye
huee subah aur ghar se kaan par rakhkar qalam nikle
6. huee is daur meiN mansoob mujhse baada_aashaamee
fir aaya wo zamaana, jo jahaaN se jaam-e-jam nikle
[ mansoob = association, baada_aashaamee = association with
drinking ]
7. huee jinse tavaqqo KHastagee kee daad paane kee
wo hamse bhee ziyaada KHasta-e-teGH-e-sitam nikle
[ tavaqqo = expectation, KHastagee = weakness, daad = justice,
KHasta = broken/sick/injured, teGH = sword, sitam = cruelity ]
8. mohabbat meiN naheeN hai farq jeene aur marne kaa
usee ko dekh kar jeete haiN jis kaafir pe dam nikle
9. zara kar jor seene par ki teer-e-pursitam nikle
jo wo nikle to dil nikle, jo dil nikle to dam nikle
10. KHuda ke waaste parda na kaabe se uThaa zaalim
kaheeN 'eisa na ho yaaN bhee wohee kaafir sanam nikle
11. kahaaN maiKHaane ka darwaaza 'GHalib' aur kahaaN waaiz
par itana jaante haiN kal wo jaata tha ke ham nikle
[ waaiz = preacher/advisor ]

grt gazal by Galib

aa, ki meree jaan ko qaraar naheeN hai
taaqat-e-bedaad-e-intazaar naheeN hai
dete haiN jannat hayaat-e-dahar ke badle
nashsha ba_andaaza-e-KHummaar naheeN hai
giriya nikaale hai teree bazm se mujh ko
haay ! ki roone pe iKHtiyaar naheeN hai
hamse 'abas hai gumaan-e-ranjish-e-KHaatir
KHaak meiN ushshaaq kee GHubaar naheeN hai
antness,
dil se uThaa lutf-e-jalva haay ma'anee
GHair-e-gul aainaa-e-bahaar naheeN hai
qatl ka mere kiya hai 'ahad to baare
waae ! akhar 'ahad ustuwaar naheeN hai
toone qasam mai_kashee kee khaaee hai 'GHalib'
teree qasam ka kuchch 'eitbaar naheeN hai !

Career Song - The 8 stages

1. when in college : Hum honge kaamiyaab, Hum honge kaam iyaab ek din.....

2. when giving interview to Multi National Company: Tu hi re.. Too hi re ....tere binaaa main kaise jiyunn....

3. waiting for interview result: Intehaa ho gai Intzaarki.. aayinaaa kuch khabar mere yaarki ...

4. just joined: Too cheez badi hai mast mast.....

5. after some time: Ye kahaan aa gaye hum??

6. After some more time: Naa koyi umang hai, naa koyi tarang hai, meri jindagi ek kati Pathang hai (booohoooo)

7. floating the resume:

kabootar ja ja ja... kabootar ja ja ja... pehele pyar ki peheli chitthi...

8. finally when you don't get a better offer any longer:

Jeena Yehaan, marna Yehaan iske siwa Jaana Kahaa..!!

girish's wedding album wonderful play

yesterday i saw his new play wedding album. its wonderful written on a middle class family where vidula(ira dubey) is egarly waiting for her us based husband to whom she is going to be married. her sister whose already married wid a NRI boy and living happily. a brother rohit having dream of becoming a script writer. and amma and appa having a thought of bright future of thier children. thats y they allow vidula to marry a boy to whom she talk only on phone, internet and msgs only.
its delightful commedy here we can say that its a play of conversations. that make the audience feel about the changing thoughts of youth. that they want to live in a new world with new thoughts. they don't like old traditions of marriage. they juat wana go for registration marriage. they share thier thoughts and feelings on phone only and on internet and vis videos.
the writer has take a new and real concept for his play. and direction of this play is done by lillte dubey, whose a famous director and artist too.
the other aspect of the story is the neghiobour boy who likes vidula's married sister and create fun and laugh for the audience. in the play utkarsh majumdaar and seema (chak de fame) plays their part very strongly

fav. gazal

Hosh Valon Ko Khabar Kya Sarfarosh

Koyi Fariyaad Tere Dil main Tum Bin

Tum Itna Jo Muskura Rahe Ho Arth

Jhuki Jhuki si nazar bekarar Arth

Chithhi na koyi sandesh Dushman

Tum Itna Jo Muskura Rahe Ho Arth

Pyaar muz se jo kiyaa to kyaa paaogee Saath Saath

shaam se aankh mein Marasim

Tumko dekhaa to ye kayaal aayaa Saath Saath

Koyi Fariyaad Tere Dil main Tum Bin

f9 words

uski bebaad si baatein..
jaise sardi ki ho raatein.
uski tanhayee yeh masti.
jaise toofan mein kashti.